Need to forgive OW and move on... help!!!!

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Hey you forgot 'put on MTV very loudly and leap around to some stupid song'. That'll get her out of your mind.

I try not to let myself think the OW is somehow better than me, she was just 'new'. H gets bored easily. No matter who he was married to, I think he would have found it hard to pass up the excitment of the OW. I think in many ways he was running away from what he saw as the more mundane aspects of his life, not just me. Hell, who cares. I have a much more exciting life without him too!