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will she ever become as 'sexed' as i need in a spouse ultimately? no. will things get better or worse over time? worse, obviously.




I got here a bit late.

I doubt that anyone will please you sexually. You have proconceived sexual appetites that no one can fill. This is the danger of sex before marriage and a sexual lifestyle before finding a mate.

Unfortunately, we all do it. This was a problem in my marriage and contributed to its demise. I wasn't getting what I wanted and I became angry and resentful. This resulted in me giving her a hard time, making inuendo and jokes and killing whatever sex she was willing to give. I also was not concerned with what she needed in order to feel sexual. On your present course, you will do the same.

You're a sex machine? You're a moron. You have no clue what marriage means, and you're better off letting this girl find a guy who is interested in HER needs instead of just his own.

All though I'm certain this will fall on deaf ears, I suggest you discover what an illusion sex really is. I suggest the book "Every Man's Battle" to help you with your unbridled lust so you can be a good husband to sone decent woman. On your present course you will bring nothing but heartache to yourself and any woman who becomes your victim.


David


The fires of true love can never be quenched, because the source of its flame is God Himself!
- Shulamith