Quote: now that there may be some 'condition' to our marriage
She took off her ring because of this? Because you insisted there must be sex in this marriage?
Sinking: run like the wind. I'm gonna say it out loud (as it were)-- call off the relationship, call off the marriage. Tell her that the woman you marry must like sex and be willing to have sex with you with some reasonable degree of frequency. If she chooses to see that as a "condition," so be it. Condition is not a dirty word. And unconditional love between adults is an absurd impossibility.
End this relationship now. Let her find someone else to struggle with over this for the next 40 years.
Sinking, some of the people on this board have been in sexless or virtually sexless marriages for longer than you have been alive-- 30+ years. Ten, twenty, thirty years of begging for sex, being physically starved, having their bodies and their physical expressions of affection rejected, sometimes with indifference, and sometimes with outright rudeness and cruelty.
YOU are looking down the barrel of that gun. If you choose this relationship, KNOW what you are choosing...
