As far as the her statement on conditional love goes:
Dam right there is a condition. There is a condition is any contract, marital or otherwise. The condidtion may be 'unconditional love,' but you have to understand that unconditional love is something you GIVE, not that you necessarily GET.
So... if she is seeking unconditional love... which is fine... where is HER unconditional love?
Sorry. Don't mean to fan the flames. Couldn't help myself.