Just thought I would mention that the feeling of hurt doesn't necessarily mean that something is a bad decision. Let's say you open a business and it just isn't making after a couple of years, you pour your heart and sould into it for another year and conclude that you must close it - painful, but necessary. Relationships are even harder than that but sometimes two people can work things out and sometimes they can't. I suggest you think about a timeline and some specific goals that will need to be reached within that timeframe to continue this R. You are smart to postpone the wedding in the meantime.
