I don't know... I think Cobra had a very good point... you need to discover what is driving you 'below the surface' that has you helping create the situation you now find yourself, or you are likely to go out and do it again with someone else.
Sinking, you've come into a room of analyzers who love to look at a problem from every angle, probe it mercilessly and dig their teeth in until it all makes sense. Nothing wrong with that.
But not every problem reflects a subconscious full of minefields and dark secrets. Just consider that what you need to discover may be as simple as the notion that two people who love each other don't necessarily have what it takes to make a relationship work, and that's okay.
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