yep. I have a degree in Music Performance. W and I met in music school...yet that is the thing we have least in common. how's that for "ironic"? we're both professional level musicians, but neither of us does much with it anymore. she never did, really. she realized late in college that she'd made the wrong choice, basically finished up, and went elsewhere. she wasn't a "player", though...she was an ED major. I was a player, and giving it up to get a "real" job killed something inside me, and I'm only just realizing that recently. Its a place that harbors a whole bunch of resentment.

heard a good joke the other day.
q: what do you call a musician that doesn't have a girlfriend?
a: homeless