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i am determined to be in a marriage where we make love 2-3 times a week



I've got a surprise for you that IS NOT the national average. The national average is about 2-3 times A MONTH - if you are lucky, and you don't sound like you are

As for the "mysterious" lady - it might be differences that draw you together but it is definitely the differences that will drive a wedge between you too and you already have a BIG issue between you and you aren't even married yet.

I don't want to rain on your parade but take some advice from the (skeptical) people on this board. They have been around the block many, many times (way too many as a matter of fact) and they can give you some good solid advice, which all seems to be pointing to GET YOUR SH!T TOGETHER NOW, while you still have a chance. Once the wedding is over with and the balloons have deflated, reality sets in.

There will be work, bills to pay, errands to run - not the nicey, nicey romantic evenings you have now. There will be no more anticipation, thinking about her during the day and your date this coming weekend. She will be there 24/7 and, like another poster said, after the 29th time she farts (I say it's probably a heck of a lot less than 29 - but we'll give him the benefit of the doubt ) the mysterious woman won't seem so mysterious anymore - she will be just like the rest of us underlings

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)