yep. really, most of us are at least or even more committed financially than anything else. emotional bondings may come and go, but the financial one is permanent. Thats why we see celebrities switching spouses as often as most of us switch underwear. because they can. All of the unpleasant things about a divorce cease to exist when you've got that kind of $$...so why not? I won't be quite so cynical (ha!) as HD, though...I'll say I think its possible to fix it. look at it as a silver lining that you're aware of the potential pitfalls now, before its too late. you still have a chance to force change. if it happens...great. if it doesn't...well, you're not stuck.
