Sink wrote
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i, for one, believe sex can be a central theme throughout a marriage. it's more than just icing. i am determined to be in a marriage where we make love 2-3 times a week


This is possible-- definitely! But not with your current partner. True, some people on this board started in HD/HD relationships, and the sex fell off. But you're starting with an imbalance-- do you honestly think it will get better? Is it possible that her lack of interest is the very thing that turns you on?