"what about love?" yeah, what about it? sure, there's more to marriage than "sex", but for some, and I suspect many if not most of the "HDs", the 2 (sex and love) are inseperable. Its one thing to wind up behind the 8-ball; but why start off there from the get-go?
the joke: q: why do all brides smile on their way down the aisle? a: because they know they've given their last BJ.
