no what is the joke? man this is the most dismal news i've ever heard though. that marriage ensures that you have no leverage. i thought it ensures you're going to 'work it out'?? but you're right! all the stories here are the same! the sex gets worse after marriage - and even worse after kids! god what is this world we live in?! everyone here tells me 'don't do it!' i suppose it's a no-brainer - if you're divorce-busting before marriage due to LD/HD get the f**k out. what about love? i guess it's the sad truth that it simply is not enough...
