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no! no i don't! and i thought that's what *marriage* was supposed to be!! the GUARANTEE that you have someone at home who wants to get it on with you tonight! or at least in the very near future.



oh, if ONLY that were true. LOL!!
really, the opposite is closer to the truth. once you get hitched, you give up any leverage you might have had to set or enforce boundaries.
Be happy that you know the deal now, and recognize it for what it is. Some of us were too dumb to see it coming...some saw it coming, and ignored it...did it anyway. For many, the "truth" doesn't come out until its too late to turn back.

You've heard the joke about why all brides smile when they're walking down the aisle, right?