no! no i don't! and i thought that's what *marriage* was supposed to be!! the GUARANTEE that you have someone at home who wants to get it on with you tonight! or at least in the very near future. i hope the counselor exposes this major difference between us... but i can't expect her to change what i have to change myself ultimately.
why is this HD/LD issue so freaking huge? i mean, it cuts the spiritual core of so many relationships in our culture and it is still a virtually taboo topic. before i was in a LD/HR relationship i was ignorant of how serious this problem is. how much pain people are in. michelle is a hero for what she is doing - but she is only one person. there are thousands of heart-wrenching stories on this board... what is the answer? how could so many people be in such agony without a serious response from the psychological community? i guess i'm getting a little carried away. i'm an idealist, and this whole issue seems so frustrating to me.
