Thanks Mama! You are right because we can create all sorts of motivations for our S's actions but they mean squat cuz WE DON"T KNOW! We can't and, in a way, it is disrespectful to believe we do. It certainly is best to do what will create a better and happier person in myself, do my dbing as best I can and remember to keep respect for myself and my W a priority in my life. Take care.
