Hi Whatis,
Just following along with you and Muddle this morning.
I like what he said:
Quote:

No dilema - be respectful and stay out of her head.





You seem to be spending a lot of time thinking about what she might be thinking. Like if I do or don't do this for her, how will she feel? Ya know what I mean?

Work on being the best you that you can be. Create happiness within yourself. Treat your W in a loving way because it makes you feel good. Do not have any expectations, that just sets you up for dissappointment.

I know, easier said than done. Now get back to work and make it a Great Day!