I have no idea what she noticed or didn't notice. She said three words to me last night and I continued to do some studying. She slept in the basement though. I have no idea why. Usually she does that when she's pissed at me or when she's up late and doesn't want to wake me by coming to bed late. So who really knows, she seemed pleasant enough this morning. I guess I'm also wondering whether this new strategy is smart right now. I'm trying to work on getting her to counselling with me so is this going to help or hinder that goal? In one way it reinforces that things cannot stay the same but on the other it may just piss her off? I'm not sure. We'll see how this one plays out. Thoughts anyone?