I tried out my new theory tonight. It really is amazing when I see how many caring things I do in the course of an evening. You notice when you stop doing them! Tonight W came home at 7:45 I had put her dinner in the fridge and normally I would take it out and heat it for her while she got her coat off, not tonight. She heated her food came and sat in the living room with me (we did exchange pleasantries) and watched TV with me. Normally when the show was over I would go over and switch the station to the ethnic channel she likes, not tonight. She was rushing to eat because she was to go pick up D9, I would normally in such a situation ask if she would like me to pick up D (she usually says no anyway), not tonight. I went to clean the kitchen and found her lunchbag sitting there, normally I would put away the containers and the bag, not tonight. Wow, in the course of 45 minutes there were four considerate things I would normally do which I chose not to do. Interesting experiment. What shall I not do next, the night is young
