Pushing it to the limit...still!

[Heywyre]

Correct the record all you want Whatisis, the fact still remains - if a kid notices it, you can be well assured there are a heck of a lot of other people around her noticing it too (and not just you)

But, like you said, be grateful for the small stuff right? Unfortunately, sometimes the small stuff isn't enough to keep us there. As much as I go up and down dozens of times throughout any given day, I have to admit, there are lots of little things my H does that picks me up - for instance, there are times he is coming home from work and passes by where I work (about a half an hour drive from home) and he will stop in and bring me a tea. Sometimes he stays, sometimes he doesn't. The fact remains that he took the time to consider me - that's what counts.

I have to start looking at those little things more and stop dwelling on the big stuff that drove us apart. Its the little things in life that will bring us back together.

Hang in there bud - you are a wonderful person (I can tell just by your postings) and you will be rewarded eventually (with or without her)

Take care