Whatis, I had a talk with W that echoed what you posted pretty closely. W talked about my statement that I could only see us being friends post divorce if our parting happened under a certain set of circumstances. She told me that I was being unreasonable because I was going to punish her at our S's expense. Nevermind what she's doing. She still thinks we can somehow be very close, and even be better parents together living in different houses because we won't have to worry about money and all the day to day stuff that pisses her off about living with me! Talk about fantasy!
“No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it. ” – Albert Einstein