Quote: "a while ago you said you'd go to counselling with me, I'd like to book an appointment now, is that still OK?.
I think that's a good idea however, I don't think I would throw in the part about thinking about our future as a couple unless she has actually mentioned to you that that is her plan also. Use the KISS rule.
Good luck
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)