I'm thinking about popping the question, you know, getting down on one knee, taking her hand and saying "Dear, will you go to therapy with me" I'm thinking about how to pop the question. My latest thought is just to bring it up something like "a while ago you said you'd go to counselling with me, I'd like to book an appointment now, is that still OK?. I feel we're at a point where we need some help in thinking through our future plans as a couple and as a family, I think it would be helpful if we could try this". I don't want to talk about saving the M etc. because in reality what we are going to do is just what I've said, start looking at what we want for our future(s) and how we're going to get there, that may be together or apart, who knows. Any thoughts out there in DB land?
Btw, I'm kidding about the getting down on one knee thing!
I'm thinking about how to pop the question. My latest thought is just to bring it up something like "a while ago you said you'd go to counselling with me, I'd like to book an appointment now, is that still OK?. I feel we're at a point where we need some help in thinking through our future plans as a couple and as a family, I think it would be helpful if we could try this". I don't want to talk about saving the M etc. because in reality what we are going to do is just what I've said, start looking at what we want for our future(s) and how we're going to get there, that may be together or apart, who knows. Any thoughts out there in DB land?
