Thanks guys! Just got back from the counselling session. Wow, 1.5 hours of me yakking. Counsellor suggested that it would be beneficial for me to convince my W to come with me. She sees that I have done so much in terms of trying to save the M. She believes W needs to start looking at what she wants from life and how she can get there. We need to look at what a life together would look like and all the other possibilities. She believes W is totally exhausted and isn't taking responsibility for making the life she wants. Counsellor said "you'd be surprised at the changes that can occur when a couple come in together". So I told her I would seriously consider this idea and get back to her. I too believe something different needs to happen here, more of the same just isn't doing it.This may be where we need to go. Anyway, that's my report for tonight and I'm now off to Yoga class. Hey, counsellor said she'd be willing to lend me counselling videos to help me with my studies, very generous of her! She knows my teachers. The SF world is probably pretty small. Later Dbers!
