In the book, "The Four Agreements" one of them is "never assume". I have been trying to apply that one in particular to my sitch but it is not the easiest thing to do in the world.
It's an awesome book (very small - light reading) but the impact of what the author says is pretty hard to put into practice.
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)