Well, Whatis has returned! We all had a wonderful time, evereything worked out perfectly. One thing I tried to keepin check is my tendency when travelling to get all worked up about plans that get shifted suddenly or new ideas tossed into the mix, like "hey, why don't we go here too". I don't like the stress of rushing here and there especially when I have no idea how the Hell to get there. I don't need to experience everything! I like to be laid back and go as time permits whereas W likes to have 10 places to visit and time for about 7. So, I over react when I see her trying to ram to many things into a day. This time only one extra place was popped in and I said "Sounds good, let's do it". It worked out well. The kids had a great time (even D12 who still insists you can't have a good time with your family, even though she was smiling for most of the weekend). I did feel a pang of jealousy when I saw W buying something for OP, but again, that is but an assumption. I just let it go, if I let all that little stuff bog me down I'd just go insane so I don't. So now we are now back to the daily grind, you know, her cheating on me and me getting pissed off Life goes on!


Divorced February 27, 2012.

"Only by love is love awakened".~ Ellen G White