Actually 1210, I was thinking that next time I will bring up the planning aspect. They say it makes no sense to keep on doing things that aren't working and keep expecting different results. I know my W's propensity towards stress and chaos and therefore should not take for granted that somehow she is going to suddenly adapt to my way of doing things. Next time I will suggest we sit down and plan rather than continuing to do the SAME! She gets so caught up in herself that she just forgets to do the planning and when it hits her it's "Oh my God, what are we going to do!"So I'm learning here. She also knows I hate this approach to things, I'm much more liable to go with no plans and just do whatever, which she hates! It's the old compromise thing which is not her strong suit these days. Live and learn. I guess I am really just as responsible for my own misery in this as she is (OSHO would be proud!). I'm ready to have fun...finally! She is not responsible for my good or bad time, I am. Thanks to everyone for dropping by. Tom, I thought threesomes were every guys dream? What happened to you?
