Thanks both of you for your advise. And, I will look into getting the book. I was thinking yesterday that I also need to stop talking about him so much and wanting to get peoples opinions just to prove that my feelings are justified. Again that points to my low self esteem and guilt feelings. I will try hard to get hold of this therapist.
My son can't meet me at a mall . But, I could have him meet me down the street and avoid driving past the house.Also, he convinced my husband to put those people in the house. Now, he doesn't like them and, is always telling me things. Some of them are even exagerated.
I need to tell him straight out that it was his idea also to have them there and that I don't want to hear it. That part of my life is in thepast.
