I am not starting new threads as soon as someone disagrees with me. I just forget have you ever been depressed? And how else can I change? I told my husband that I wanted to lay the problems down and start anew. He said if I wanted to go back home I would have to be a roomate to the people he has living with him. I have invited him to dinner he said yes then didn't show up. I needed him to fix my car I gave him money to fix it he spent the money. What do you think of that? I gave him a christmas present he opened it said nothing. I hugged him he just stood there with a blank look on his face. What else can I do? I am just not do anything else and if he wants me he can make the contact now. How much more can I try?