OK, some say I can be really in tune with the feelings of others and right now I sense you have a dislike of OW OK - joking aside, there is a lot of anger in you. In my sitch I had a lot of anger as well and I ended up mildly depressed for a couple of months. (didn't want to see friends, talk to anyone, crying for no reason, got sorted with C, didn't need meds). So - what I'm saying is be aware that this can lead to getting the blues and more...anger which isn't released often manifests as depression, but we are all different and what happened to me might not happen to you. I suppose if this hatred/anger drags on, and you can't get it released then you may well need to bring it up in MC, if you do be careful not to attack H but present it as an opportunity to clear the air, draw a line under it and move forward. OK - that's my tuppenceworth. Take care, this isn't easy I know.
Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05 Seperated Sept/Oct 05 Oct 06 - H recomitted July 11 - I am now a WAW.