I'm wondering when the trust issues are resolved...H didn't cheat on me, but if the OW had given him any encouragement, I know he would have. She's still a "friend," and I'm having a hard time with it. To his credit, H has done nothing to set off alarms...heck, I'm snooping big time, and there's nothing at all to indicate anything.
But still...just wondering what I should do. Bring up in MC about how I'm still having trouble with their friendship? I know I can't demand he end it...and it wouldn't be valuable to me if he did it b/c of my demands anyway. I guess I wish he'd just do it on his own...and maybe he will. He already doesn't call/hang out with her very often, and it's never alone.
I want to trust, but I am having a difficult time!
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
