I think we just had a breakthrough in our piecing. My wife just deposited her whole paycheck into our joint account. This would have been the check that she would pay to rent her apartment for February with. Since she deposited in our account, instead of keeping it for rent, I can only assume that she is not paying rent. In true DB priciple, I have not mentioned anything about the apartment to her for weeks, and she has not said anything either. She has not spent one night away from me since this all happened. She has been happy, relaxed, and fun to be with, and now, it seems she has taken another step to commit to our marriage, by letting the apartment she has been renting since October, go without ever staying there. I am very very happy about this.