Well we had a great weekend in Chicago. Just the two of us in a nice hotel downtown. We went shopping all day on Saturday, and to a play in the eveing. Lots of great memories. We talked alot, about nothing much. Just a friendly weekend without any preasure on her to have sex with me. She did want hugs and kisses several times and I was happy to oblige. Other then, the physical things that are missing, we seem to be piecing things back together very nicely. I think we would both call each other best friends at this point. I am so pleased with that part if things, since it has only been a little over 3 months since she was ready to leave me. We talked a little about physical things, and she said she will move forward with things when it is spontainious. She will not be preassured by me or by anyone. She does not want a timetable and I have agreed to that. She read about the first 1/3 of the 5 love languages in the car on the way home. We go to our marriage counselor tonight. This is the first time she has asked to see us seperately first, then together for the last 20 minutes. I'm up first. I'm a little nervous about this, but I don't know why.
