normal, well, looking at every marriage I can think of I can recall huge obstacles they had to overcome, unbearable situations going on, all sorts of things, so there isnt' such thing as "normal", something is always up and people wouldnt' suspect a thing. LIfe indeed is a journey not a destination.

Enjoy the moment, it's nice you guys get to do something out of the house together; my H and I are painting a mural, that's our time together.


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.