Buddy,
I think you shoud be conservative with the physical contact for now. DB advises us to do what works, and change what isn't getting us results we want. Your initiation of contact is met with indifference and possibly annoyance. Work on managing the emotions that your are struggling with. I think waiting on this issue is the best approach.

You've described many positives in your situation. I'm glad that you've found us.

Concerned_listener

CL 53 W 54
M 20 yrs.
03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL
10-14' Piecing

"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."

----Tao Te Ching