I have decided to stop trying to show physical affection until my wife does or until our trip on the 19th. I promised her I would not be the first to initiate sex, and of course, after only 3 months, she has not and I have kept my promis. I am not going to say anything, but I am going to stop kissing her good bye, good night, etc. She does not seem to enjoy it, and so I guess I have been doing it for myself. Right now, my focus has to be on doing what is right for her. If this causes her to want to show some affection, I will be pleased. Suprised, but pleased. anyhow, if she does not enjoy physical contact with me, why would I want contact with her? It seems needy to me to have to ask for kisses and hugs and then accept them along with a look that says I'm not enjoying this. Physical Affection should come from both parties equally, or not at all. Does anyone disagree?
