I have spent the last several days feeling sorry for myself because my wife is not ready to show a lot of physical affection. Because I want physical affection, I have been blind to all of the things she is doing to show me she loves me and wants to work on our marriage. Number one, she is still home even though she has a furnished apartment ready to move into since October. She wears her wedding ring every day. She goes out with me to dinner and movies whenever I ask. We are taking dancing lessons so we can wow the crowd at our Son's wedding in October. She says she feels a friendship with me that she has not felt for a long time. She talks to me about many things like our kids, our jobs, etc and sometimes her feelings without me asking. She has started doing some of the housework again, which I have mostly taken over. She cooks for me again, every night except Monday which is my night to suprise her. (I don't work Mondays and she does. She is a much better chef then I am.) So with all of this going on, I feel sorry for myself because she is not ready to make love to me only 3 months after she told me she was leaving me, and did not think I would care. What a fool I have been.
