Wondering if I'm piecing or Last Resort

[kirby]

Thanks, Lilypad,
The reminders are appreciated, and valuable. I'm thinking about printing them out, laminating them, and carrying them in my wallet - and I'm almost serious. Maybe I'll memorize them and chant them as a mantra.

Your insight about snooping is right on. If I know what's happening, maybe I can control it. At least I won't be surprised and as hurt. I can protect myself. I'm learning I have to let go of the things I can't control. I can't control my W's actions or OM, or A. Snooping doesn't give control. Thanks.