It's hard to know which forum you belong in, isn't it? Knowing what I know now, I wouldn't come to Piecing until I was really, really sure that's what I was doing. But I'm here, and I've been getting great advice, so I'm staying.
I don't know if my W has re-established contact with OM or not. I prefer to believe not, but I can't tell. I don't think I want to know. I think TL told me a while ago that she will probably contact OM, that most WAS do that. It's got to hurt a bit though, no matter how well you've detached, GALed, PMAd, DBed. I feel for you.
But I envy you the ILY. Maybe tomorrow (or next week, or next month...) I'll get one from my W. But, if I never get one from her again, I know it will be sad, but I don't have to be. I don't expect her to say ILY. Not today or tomorrow. It would be a pleasant surprise though, a shocking one actually, .
I'm sure it does take a while. I think I'm finally getting to the space where I can stop fighting to make it go quicker.
Good luck, Wedge.
M45, W4,S15, D10,
Bomb 10/3/06, Moved back in 11/6/06
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