as far as moving out - H asked me what I'd do if it were reversed. I told him I don't know how he would be able to earn my trust back if I wasn't there daily to witness his actions. He doesn't feel trust can ever be earned back.
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...