Sometimes I wonder if it would be easier on me if H did move out, but then I've told that it would be esier on H to get closer to OW. I guess @ least w/ H home I have a chance to show him how I have changed. On the other side it hurts when he leaves & doesn't return until the next day. I don't have that leisure w/ the 3 kids and all. Try to keep a positve mind, I know it's hard. I am glad you started back to church. R u getting counseling, try to talk to the pastor of your church. I tried,but for some reason this pastor will not see just one partner only of the marriage.
