a lot of it was attention. His friends were more important to him than I was (which he denies) ..... I didn't feel important to him and this OM took an interest in me. Working on me 40 hours a week......when my H wasn't really working on me at all. Does that make sense?
I'm NOT blaming my H - I made the bad choice. But that's how I felt when I did.
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...