Do you know what brought you to do it? Was your H not giving you the attention you wanted? I am just asking cuz I want to understand why my H is doing this. We were never lacking in the sexual part as a matter of fact when he wanted to sleep seperatley, he even said we were always good in that part. It wasn't until I started not wanting it that i think the PA started, but I don't understand cuz I has always been the one w/ the higher sex drive! I think it was all the fighting all the time that we did not know HOW to communicate. I have done some major 180's w/ that. H will push my buttons, but I do not respond or react like I use to.