I wonder if my H feels any guilt cuz I just can't tell, only that he tosses and turns all night long, could that be guilt? Did you "project" your infidelity on him? I mean sometimes my H accuses me of having a boyfreind, especially if I have plans and go out and leave him to watch the kids ( rarely happens). The last time I went out, he tore up all the letters and poems I had given him that nite and will punish me by also going out, but will take the girls to see her! I can most likely pinpoint the exact nite he first slept w/her and that nite he kept on getting up to the kitchen and kept looking in our bedroom (this was when he was sleeping in other room).
