Quote: I did not read all of your posts, but I gather you were the cheating spouse. can u answer some questions for me please? My H is cheating w/ an ex co-worker, it was an EA for a couple of years until recently PA. Since he got to be so close w/ the EA ( he has never really opened up to me about any of his feelings) what r the chances he will decide to leave her? What made you feel remorse? Or is it just a selfish phase his in? H did say he was tired of everything, mrtgage(always behind), 3 kids, just wants to be alone. What was your turning point to make u return to your H?
I felt sick even when I did it. I should have stopped and not done it to begin with but I can't take it back. I realized what I did was wrong and stopped it. My H doesn't think I have, doesn't think I'd want him if the OM was available - which is not true. I've told him I only want him, but naturally he doesn't believe me right now.
My H has said that he is tired of the mortgage, being responsible to someone, etc. and needs his space so he moved out on New Year's Day.
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
