Everyone advice to me lately has been to act as if I do not know anything is wrong and be all so sweet to lure him back. H is already angry when I go thru his things and has threatened to move me out of our room into the extra room where he was sleeping since it has no door to lock me out for his privacy. H has not mentioned anymore talk of filing for the big D. My sweetness does seem to work and it seems to keep him at home most of the time. I am afraid if I tell him what I found all hell will break loose!
