my other posts are titled under what is the difference btw mlc & infidelity, now I know for my H it is both w/ mlc being the first and until recently I found proof of his EA turning to PA. You guys tell me- I found his "wife beater shirt" full of where he must of wiped his cum w/ & his work shirt w/ a little lipstick stain? Cat says he could of pleasured himself. Question- How much shold I distance myself? Should I not give him a kiss goodbye in the mornings and kisss hello at nite? Big question- should I not iniate sex? H has not admitted to anything but just freindship, how do I request H wear a condom w/ me?