advice needed - sex and moving out??

[Heywyre]

I guess it is something YOU have to decide, not him. Do you want him to stay and, if so, for what reasons? Just because you are feeling vulnerable, weak etc. - lousy reasons!!! This will just make you more dependent on him and therefore give him YOUR power - take it back!!!

There is no way I would stand for my H still seeing the OW and staying out all night and then thinking I would believe him when he says "we're not having sex, really" - GIVE ME A FRIGGIN BREAK - I doubt very much they aren't having sex. And, if they aren't why the constant having to see her, constant staying out all night etc. etc. - he needs to grow up and stop acting like a 16 year old. He has responsibilities, a wife, young children and it sounds like they have more maturity than he does