I don't know but there is NO WAY I would be willing to put myself in the situation you are presently in. I know you are a ways from home and all but to be having sex with your H knowing full well he is still seeing the OW (and you can pretty much guarantee they are still having sex too).
Quote: comment on whether I should let him move out or not
If he wants to move out, it really has nothing to do with you letting him. You have to let him make that decision. You have to let go of the control issue and make him responsible for his own actions. By you making the decisions he has yet another excuse to point fingers - i.e. "well it was you that wanted it that way".
Let him make the choice. In the meantime, take care of yourself and GAL (get a life) - do things that YOU like to do - without him! Show him that you don't need him to survive, that you are strong without him (even if you know you aren't). That doesn't mean you have to be cruel it just means it will give you more strength to get yourself through this - regardless of the outcome
take care
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
