I had an idea. My husband's birthday is coming up. I wasn't sure what to do. Should I do what he did to me? Not call/email? No, that'd be petty and I'd feel bad. Should I do something special for him? Not sure, I'm still hurting from his forgetting mine.
Idea:
Celebrate both!
So, I called him up...told him that I noticed that his birthday was coming up. I had an idea and wanted to see what he thought.
I told him it'd be great if we could do something to celebrate BOTH birthdays.
I told him I didn't have any idea what we could do to celebrate... but I wanted to throw the idea out there and see what he thought.
He thought it was a good idea and said he'd ponder what we could do to celebrate.