Something I've always wanted to do, had in fact gone to club once, right before I started dating my husband ages ago. But I got so wrapped up in him, I never went back.
I think I've mentioned before that I work at my favorite University. It turns out to even get to the fencing club, I have to be a member of the University's Fitness Center. It's a 3 story building with a climbing wall, an inside track, a HUGE pool, machines scattered everywhere around the pool so that you have something to watch while working out. (Can you say, "Eye Candy?") Lots of classrooms for different classes, including Badmintion, Karate, Volleyball, Yoga, Pilates...etc! Plus a workout room stuffed with various weight machines and more.
At $11.00 a month, that's not a bad deal. Especially since they have a lot of really nice equipment.
I've found myself a playground!
So, I never made it to the fencing club last night, but rather I got up at 5:30 am and went and worked out for a good amount of time.
As soon as I got bored with one machine, I switched to another.
That's great, PNT! I, myself, have been interested in doing fencing, but have never gotten around to it...too many other things to occupy my time. Jeez, at $11 a month, go for it!
Quote: Especially since they have a lot of really nice equipment.
Are you talking about the machines or the "eye candy?"
I had an idea. My husband's birthday is coming up. I wasn't sure what to do. Should I do what he did to me? Not call/email? No, that'd be petty and I'd feel bad. Should I do something special for him? Not sure, I'm still hurting from his forgetting mine.
Idea:
Celebrate both!
So, I called him up...told him that I noticed that his birthday was coming up. I had an idea and wanted to see what he thought.
I told him it'd be great if we could do something to celebrate BOTH birthdays.
I told him I didn't have any idea what we could do to celebrate... but I wanted to throw the idea out there and see what he thought.
He thought it was a good idea and said he'd ponder what we could do to celebrate.
Quoting ANS: My W used to ask me why I loved her. I never had an answer. I just do.
I suppose that part of the love decision is based on seeing the positive aspects of the person you decide to love. That makes your decision easier, but basically, love is one of those things that you can’t spend too much time analyzing. You just have to do it.
Do you love your kids?
Why?
Andy
Makes sense to me.
Note to self:
Stop questioning myself about my love for Husband.
When he and I live together again, remember not to ask him why he loves me.
Lots of classrooms for different classes, including Badmintion, Karate, Volleyball, Yoga, Pilates...etc! Plus a workout room stuffed with various weight machines and more.
No, that'd be petty and I'd feel bad. Should I do something special for him? Not sure, I'm still hurting from his forgetting mine. 
but I wanted to throw the idea out there and see what he thought.